I understand what you mean but things like ym tried to be professional with her so many times just to be aired, to play the passing blame game and other frustrating things for months. sxa emotional outburst further pushed by the reactions and unacceptable unaccountablity for actions once more. so many people being dragged into unnecessarily fights between the two even beforehand which at first is all fun and games but her & cyz stories makes you kinda yikes of how it was when it got bad. like I think there's a point where fuck professionalism happens and in the river it's actually impressive during this year's full from grace lxy they managed to push it off so far. like most groups would've already jumped in and on far before the sxa thing, maybe even with the yby/ddd partner rumour that traced kinda back to her mouth. the "laziness", "pettiness", "kid" angles were already being exercised to excuse some of her questionable behaviour beforehand. you can't burn so many bridges especially in your team that took you under the wing and did a lot for you (considering how tight she was suddenly in the s2 core hangout gang). it's more of a stand on behaviour to teach a lesson because personally, I wouldn't want to be at a party fake smiling and using all that energy for something someone who has wronged me deeply needs from me now, even if it is the job but like you said the river is very unique that some people have the audacity to do a lot and sxa/ym won't lose a lot by skipping this birthday anyways.

but, anyways.
you can't pay for respect.
and lxy lost their respect.