so so frustrated about jar, he is such a great presence in the community and people like him are meant be celebrated, not pushed out. fandom has really reached a sad state, a person does not deserve to be crucified over a harmless tweet. there’s something to be said about how it was mainly straight women who decided to go after him and their hostility to actual queer men in kpop fan spaces. it seems like calling a man in a crop top a twink, is what straight people count as allyship now. gay people exist outside of the capacity of your small mind. I hope jar knows how much he is treasured and how his existence makes communities like this better and brighter.