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Death eater · 3mo

halo, mau tanya, kak. temanku ada yang baru2 ini punya suicidal ideation karena situasinya saat ini. jujur aku mau bantu dia buat bisa keluar dari masalahnya, but i admit i lack the capability to help and give her advice because i'm emotionally detached. i always avoid things that require me to think and feel deeper, emotionally. is it alright to just be there to listen to them and giving them necessary support? bc i feel like i need to do something but i don't know how or if i can actually handle to give her proper support. aku selalu bilang ke dia buat konsultasi, dan dia sebenarnya udah beberapa kali konsultasi dan dapat insight. should she get some more help atau gmn ya? aku agak bingung juga sebenarnya. sorry if u get confused too...

That's totally fine if you just listen to her and be their companion. You don't have to kasih penanganan macam-macam. As I said in my thread, bantulah semampu dan sesuai porsi kita demi kebaikan bersama. Jangan sampai kamu bantu orang, tapi kamu malah zolim sama diri sendiri, jangan ya.

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