all three of the people i'm dating are people i've known for a very long time and have been in a relationship with before, buddy. there's been extensive communication in my relationships and we're all happy which is something i probably can't say for you! love the quotations around roommate, by the way. not sure exactly what you're implying there considering my "roommate" is someone i've been dating since 2017 and i have a plethora of pictures of us together because i've lived with him for three years (it was actually the anniversary of me moving at the beginning of this month, even!)