OKAY CAN I BE REAL HONEST LIKE yea i joke about wanting to lift yuuji but also without being Too Personal going to japan was a HUGE motivating factor for me to go to the gym cuz as an asian person like....iykyk....i think it helps if u have a goal to work towards...also there was a period of time where i was just super unhealthy/inactive and in pain all the time so i started exercising to not feel that way LOL but also i do wanna to be strong TT despite my first point, aesthetics are actually the least of my concerns (tho having big arms would be awesome)
i do have a gym membership but i split the cost with my friend which reminds me having a gym buddy is also a good motivating factor cuz we always hold each other accountable when feeling lazy 😂
and ik what u mean everyday i say 'i dont wanna go to the gym' but once i actually do my workout i feel so much better physically....🤪