Anon Bestie · 9mo
advice needed. theres this guy, he's 23 and works with me. yesterday he was talking to his guy friends and they were all teasing him about this girl he gets to meet (a new co-worker, she's a minor, 17) for work and they all kept giggling about it. we work at the same place and she joined a week ago. he seems like a pretty good guy but it feels weird? he acts like he's too innocent to date but now i am thinking its not innocence its immaturity. he's technically six years older than her.
So sorry this is late! Red flag. Make it clear that you think he's really weird for hitting on a 17 year old. And if you have contact with her, let her know why it's strange. Ultimately, you can't change ppl's actions unless they want you to, but the same thing happened to a family member of mine (17). I told her that if he tried anything with her, I'd kill him. Haven't heard about him flirting since. In fact, he takes precaution to distance himself. I don't think it's wrong to be work friends especially bc like, ppl spend so much time at work together, but he's still 6 years older and she's not even a legal adult yet. No, no, no.
