reanswering this one bc in theory its fine but i get really jealous seeing ppl celebrating their bday with family... like a CAKE???? I WANT A CAKE i havent had a birthday cake in like??? 6 years... i also hate the feeling that anyone who does celebrate w me is doing it out of like. obligation... tbh its just another day and i usually cry every year on my bday KGSDHJKHGJKSDG