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heyyy i don’t know if you can help me im looking for a markhyuck fic 🥹 ten is mks friend and convince him to have jaemin do a tarot reading for him, jm is also dh’s roomate 🥲
hi berry, ive been in relationships since my early 20’s and this is the first time im single after 7 yrs (accumulated from 2 prev relationships) and from someone who has been in only long term rels, i can say that ive been at peace the most now that im single. i always tend to lose myself in my partners, thinking more about the “us” rather than the “me” which leads to abandoning my own interests and priorities.. i realized that i can only ever be in a rel if im 100% able to enjoy my time on my own..
i think this is another good perspective for the anon. a lot of ppl have this issue too, managing your relationships, yourself and your time isn't that easy. and when you get out of a relationship and you've built your entire life around the other person, it's hard to pick your life back up, and it's Hard to not immediately get into another relationship that fills the void. it's important to remember that you can love someone but you still have to be your own person
To the anon who wanted recs : https://archiveofourown.org/works/51307123
Comment for anon who said they've never been in a relationship: if you have a tiktok there are a PLETHORA of girls in their 20s/30s on tiktok who talk about never being in a relationship and feeling like "a late bloomer" and their own work through accepting and understanding there's nothing wrong with them. Society is the one that brainwashed us all that relationships mean way more than they should about people. Fuck society. There's nothing wrong with you. Keep being you.
what would you advice someone who’s starting to feel bad about themselves or feel like maybe there’s something wrong with them because they haven’t been in a relationship yet…and almost all the people in their life are in one or had one and what if they never meet someone…?
first of all i can just say ofc there's nothing wrong with you. being in a relationship or not doesn't define someone's value and you have to learn to live your life without looking at what others are doing or comparing yourself to them (this isnt easy to achieve but its important to live a happy life). ppl have different standards and priorities and you gotta think about what you really want without letting others lead your thoughts. what if you dont truly want to date or you arent ready for it, and this wish only comes from comparing yourself? And if you want to date and you are ready for it, you gotta know that even if you put yourself out there, it might take a lot of time to find someone you truly like anyway and that is Fine. there isnt a countdown or a deadline to find a partner or to experience certain things, so don't pressure yourself or think less of yourself bc that's not true at all, and anyone who judges you for it is a loser (and a slave to other ppl's judgments)
hi berryyy can u recommend some good dongren writers? i feel like ive gone through the really famous writers so much i need a new meal :(( ive reread ur fics an unhealthy amount of times just to cope with the lack of new material
everyone i love has someone they love even more…so i’m nobody’s first choice at all
hi berry tce is my bedtime story.. i love to fall asleep with pain and suffering
Hi Berry! Just wanted to say that I think “Valentine” and “I Want You To Love me” by Fiona Apple suit tce hc, jn, and rj sm :’) Hope you give these songs a listen bc they’re so good!
the dongren tag in ao3 is so dry :( im just waiting for writers to release one that'll change the trajectory of my life again just like ur fics
berry please drop a 100k.… you're my favorite renhyuck author. i devoured fiction in fiction so fast 😭😭😭😭
jn’s a better person than me in tce bc if my partner cheated on me w my friend and my friends knew it wasn’t just physically but also emotionally id leave it up to god to do the forgiving!
even tho i think anyone in his position would go crazy (and he does), and i would definitely not forgive my friend in this situation (lol) there are important points here. 1. he's consenting the physical part, so there's no physical cheating in tce. tce plays with the limits of emotional cheating instead 2. at some point he's aware that rj has feelings for dh, but bc rj still has feelings for jn as well, jn doesn't want to break up. so it's not that his friends aren't telling him about it, bc he already knows. he reveals this towards the end of the fic, but there are hints before that, so he's basically fighting for the rs until the end
Loved your rewatch thread you gave me more renhyuck brainrot like wow… these guys are crazy they are in love I can’t believe we are witnessing their love story in real time
hi berry im going to read the cloud effect on a weekday like a crazy person wish me luck !!
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