i don’t really think there’s a way for a cis person to make a comment like that and not have it be transphobic. and tbh i dont think making sexual comments is inherently a “male” trait so i would feel uncomfortable to ascribe male socialization to that behaviour. i think ultimately you just have to be an adult and communicate to your friend that her comments make you uncomfortable. i don’t think you have to make it a trans thing, and i don’t want to call you out or anything but i think it might be your subconscious bias that’s jumping to that being the explanation and not “my friend is autistic and has different boundaries around sex than i do”. you can just tell her you’re uncomfortable without trying to delve into her socialization or identity or whatever. that’s lowkey a little bigoted. like it might be her socialization or something but that’s also kind of none of your business you know? not to be mean. like if your cis friend was doing something you don’t like, would you be like “this thing that’s bothering me is probably due to the fact that your dad wasn’t present in your childhood” or would you just point out the behaviour that was bothering you? not a one to one analogy but like you get what i mean. just tell your friend that she’s making you uncomfortable and also in future situations too it’s better to be direct with people who have autism, a lot of the time they prefer that. and in general in life tbh i think just tell people that they’re upsetting you. life is too short to be hand wringing over people’s behaviours and psycho analyzing why they’re doing something. you can only express what you feel. and if she’s not receptive to it when you speak about it in the moment, try messaging her in writing instead.

ok hmmm. let’s see. im bad with actual measurements but in terms of ranking leejeong is the biggest. although scholars may differ on whether or not it’s actually only medium sized and we’re just seeing his giant balls all the time. personally i don’t think he’s gyuvin/shanbin big but i think it’s big. yunseo is in second place because we have seen him in tight leather pants and his dick has not NOT been visible iykwim.

ok the previous two are based on visual evidence the rest are just vibes. i think munjung is third just based on height and his giant puppy paws and seungeon is fourth and his might be the longest but it’s skinny. he gives me long skinny dick vibes. keita is in last place, but he’s almost definitely the only one who knows how to use it so it all balances out. oh wait i forgot hanbin. his dick is there. like it’s fine, ok sized leaning on the smaller side.

ok let’s get into it because it’s like a chicken and egg thing right? did he start flirting with old ladies because he likes gifts or did he start getting the gifts because he likes flirting with old ladies? either way is very horny to Me. my little sugar baby 💓. but i do think he wants to fuck his noona fans, it’s pretty obvious to me from like. multiple points of evidence including that video lol. and yeah i always say the minute his dating scandal drops im kms. you will never hear from me again i swear to god. real ones remember my summer 2022 meltdown over mingi’s dating scandal and that even turned out to be fake. i am not god’s least parasocial soldier, i fear.