Anonymous Coward · 4mo
feel like you misinterpreted what that other person was saying, as far as i can see they didn’t deny that getting a woman out of the way of a yaoi ship is a thing they said it wasn’t solely a yaoi thing which in all honesty is what a lot of these discussions do frame it as which completely ignores the nasty way m/w shippers talk about women too (especially if you add in a non white woman to the situation). i can only assume this came up because of the whole “mlw is always better than mlm cause at least there’s a woman in it” discourse that’s been happening which is a very stupid and surface level way of thinking especially when half of the mlw enjoyers would throw a tantrum if you tried to serve them wlw. as a neuvia shipper i can’t even count he amount of times ive seen somebody jump in on the “these dumb fujos are so misogynistic” discussions only to turn around and call navia a stupid whore or useless in m/f only ship wars and i don’t see this discussed anywhere ever
If you take two seconds to read this what I said I acknowledge there IS misogyny specific to m/f ships and it is in fact talked about, crying about how you feel attacked because people are willing to call out of a specific brand of misogyny that IS specific to mlm ships is frankly not my problem, I’ve talked about misogyny in m/f spaces, transmisogyny in f/f spaces etc. im not suggesting any are more or less problematic than the other
