Hi, Cal. Seems like you've been dealing with some weird people. Aku saran aja, gak usah dikasih panggung. Gak perlu kamu tanggapi submission yang ngata-ngatain kamu, nanti mereka bakalan stop sendiri. You're pretty in your own way, and you don't need to waste your energy on those negative things. Believe me, I have tried this and they stopped bothering me. Live a peaceful life. :]