aaa i have multiple reasons, actually!! the main one is that I rly dont like writing 'getting married and having children' as the end goal for m/f ships in general. There's so many ways of writing m/f ship domesticity that don't involve that, and I prefer those! I'm also REALLY squicked out by pregnancy lmao and ALSO aside from ships like marisault and maybe nvfr I don't think any of my m/f ships should be involved in raising children lmao