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Anonymous Doe · 30d
tanggapan lo tentang mantan yang lu kasih lagu cuman pas putus dia ngasih lagu yang lu kasih ke cowo lain? lu yang dia kasih buat lu juga dia kasih ke cowo lain, wajar ga sih kesel karena masalah kek gini dav?
Anonymous Doe · 2mo
what u love the most about your gfriend?
Anonymous Doe · 3mo
genuinely ask menurut kamu, pasangan yang baik untuk seumur hidup itu seperti apa? apakah ada kriteria khususnya?
Anonymous Doe · 3mo
cara mengatasi teman kerja yg galak galak padahal semua org juga cape, huft
FYI i was canvasser sales yg tiap hari ribut sama mentor (gua dulu MT), divisi lain, dan konsumen. Gua selalu klasifikasi feedback buruk orang ke dua kategori:
1) Gua memang bersalah. How to deal with that? Generously admit my mistake, say sorry, and improve. Kalau orang field marah biasanya yang keluar kebun binatang wordings, but as long as there's something i can learn, yaudah. Semua stakeholder bisnis punya kepentingan masing-masing yg gak sepenuhnya bisa kita pahami.
2) There's no mistake just pure an emotional dumping. If that's your case i may suggest you with this:
- Being stone-faced and sponge-mentality. Orang yang randomly releasing anger biasanya satisfied lihat weaklings dan mereka merasa superior. Gua dulu selalu pasang poker face, even bb gua turun 10kg karena stress juga jangan sampai orang lain tahu kalau gua lg tertekan karena external factor. Turning their anger into nonsense will make them get bored with you, trust me.
- Don't be a quiet one, befriend others. Socializing takes effort but jangan sampai jadi outsider juga. Kalau belum ada jabatan, sedikit power yang bisa lu hold di dunia kerja itu ya: skill dan koneksi.
Di luar itu semua, yang paling penting ya embrace your value and respect urself so others will respect you. Btw my suggestion is based on my own exp ya, di dunia sales dan expat. Semoga masih bisa relatable dan bisa membantu. Best luck anon!
Anonymous Doe · 3mo
Weekend is coming, may I know what kind of midnight thought you have rn?
Anonymous Doe · 3mo
hi dav, i'm sorry for pouring my thoughts here.. its really suffocate me.. i'm crying at this hour because the thing i saw on the internet is all about maba thingy another dream that i had to bury, c'est la vie but God i want it so bad. feels like im burning alive. can you please dav tell me how to get rid of the anger and sadness that i feel deeply in my soul because i can't go to college due to financial issues. my dreams r just a dream. i'm okay but it's not okay and i think about it all the time, it's really heavy
I'm so sorry the world failed you and so did i who has no proper advice for your emotional problem. Your feelings are undoubtedly valid, as much as my own lacking to put myself on other people's shoes like yours and to paraphrase courages, even if i want to. I'm afraid my rubbish advices will lead to wrong turn because of my incapability to envision. May Allah bless you with peace and happiness further.
Beaux, Lyubovia · 4mo
I have big presentation tomorrow please help me with any tips for calming myself down, i'm freaking scared and it's alarming.
Anonymous Doe · 4mo
but bcs artist's arts are the embodiment of themselves. but if we do consider the alignment of our morals with theirs, then we're the reflection of the arts we consume? wdyt about this dav?
Anonymous Doe · 4mo
hey dav, is it really possible to separate artist from their arts when it comes to consuming? for example, you just listen to Taylor Swift without condoning her actions.
dumb titan · 4mo
kadav, is it ok if i feel displeased when my achievement is being undervalued just because i'm pretty much privileged? or is it justified when someone who has said that is poorer than you? i need adult advise because my peers suggested me to throw my tantrum.. sorry for being too noisy here, you're literally ghosting my text ;-;