Break it down with STAR method.

Different opinions are very common in relationships, but I will hear about his preference first and give opinions without hurting each other.

I come to terms with the fact that people can disagree on something and still be together, as long as what we’re disagreeing on is not something too serious. Like arguing over pineapple on pizza, that’s okay.

Membicarakan pandangan partner dahulu dan pandangan kita menyimpulkan jalan apa yg terbaik

I should take time to calm down alone and then we can talk through the problem without saying hurtful things to each other.

Looks like it will be difficult. So one of us has to give in.

I will do discussion with my partner, talk to him/her.

We could be disagree in a topic, problems, even we can fight like it is a warzone. Well, relationship indeed a warzone. However, after we fought, we shall agree to be okay and make the problem our glue to our bond.