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KEN. · 12 answers · 3mo

What's the biggest lesson you've learned from past relationships?

You don’t have to go all out for your partner if you don’t see a future with them, especially if you see it’s a toxic relationship. It will only drain your energy and mental health. You can do your best, but not all out. Save your energy for the next one, and make sure you’re healthy enough to get a healthy relationship. Keep your sanity. I said what I said.

The saying ‘if he wanted to, he would’ is not always true. Semua orang punya situasi dan masalahnya sendiri yang bisa menghalangi, loh. Love alone sometimes is not enough.

Treat your partner appropriately, don't be too restrained and don't always excuse their actions either. It may be hard, but if he's the one for you, it'll work out fine.

Not exactly a relationship. More like a 'some'. I learnt that I shouldn't let somebody who doesn't deserve my kindness consume me.

The biggest lesson I've learned from my past relationships is the importance of mutual respect and clear communication. :)

To not expect more from someone who says sweet things to you, does not mean he is sincere.

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