Long story short.. her reason was - i made her call me stupid over a call cuz i was narrating an incident where i did something stupid. She tried to say that it's not stupid but to me that incident was so scarring that i couldn't believe it any other way round so i told her that it's still stupid tho. So yeah that.. and she just gives that weird avoidant behaviour out of nowhere sometimes which makes me super anxious and if i try to ask if i did something wrong, she goes on to say that it's on myself to feel assured about that, she can't give assurance. Now she randomly texted that she wants to kiss me as if all this was a joke? I lost months of sleep and appetite over this girl mind u