this is really nice of you to say, but i genuinely think it should be the norm 😭😭 not to make myself sound like some beacon of morality because i'm like the furthest from that, but having a discussion and being open to possibly changing your opinion or hearing the other side is imho the best way to resolve things, and i'm once again really happy that people came in to kindly share their views and help me understand how to handle such sensitive topics better!