this is SUUUCH a good question and i’m sure there are so many things i’m forgetting, but the first thing to come to mind was bg’s ‘how can i just leave you here and go’ to yj :,) i just think it’s such a lovely way of showing you care about someone, of saying that they’re not a burden to you and that you care about them enough to stick around even when it gets hard. idk. i think a lot about that, and about the idea that love is effort.

i also have been so consumed by th’s ‘i miss you, i love you’ for sb in his recent birthday post :,))