generally speaking, i believe it is when i started to comfortably peel myself—especially the ugly ones, layer by layer, making space and let them erode every corner to connect with whoever or whatever it is that i fell in love with (yes, the answer is not exclusive to romantic relationships only). i believe that despite not being able to choose who or what to love, we can always tell, you could always tell when you're in love. love is not a mere infatuation that can be felt immediately. it is build over time, all because we choose TO love. so, what is it that you truly feels and what is it that you truly wants?