i have bad paranoia involving it. even if i didn't, i think it's okay for me to just not like people adding my off limits urls onto their wishlists. if i come across someone who has a url of mine on their wishlist, i ask nicely for them to remove it. if they don't remove it then oh well! we both move on 🤷 i promise you it is just a small preference of mine and i won't kill anyone for not removing something, i just ask one singular time. it is a boundary