yj pushing bgs arm away harshly made me feel some type of way idk… I know bmjn isn’t just a tom and jerry dynamic and even I get annoyed when that’s all moas reduce them too but this just felt a bit much? I wouldn’t care if yj had seemed like he was smiling/laughing and bg too, but they weren’t and it just seemed kind of harsh and no one’s saying anything except moas who are excusing it on behalf of “that’s how they are” when no it usually isn’t?? 😭 and even then it’s clear they’re joking when here its very vague… idk watching that clip is just sort of unsettling and I haven’t seen any of the bmjnists I follow acknowledge it