✧ · 1mo
in response to you stating "he uses he/him pronouns from what ive seen", from my experience of being abused / harassed by her for years, she particuarly told me to use she/her for her & using he/him on her particularly was misgendering her so until she ever tells me other wise
he's told me that when we got along too (i was also harassed and abused dare i say) (however we used to be mutual fps and he said he didn't mind if i used he on him, just not as frequent. that's information from 2 years ago, though) but on the most recent rentry i've seen (feb 2024) he's using exclusively he/him and i feel like not doing so is misgendering by itself when it's public information. considering you two don't get along anymore i don't see how he'd tell you otherwise, though?
