U see, after tjsg got married they talked abt settle down on the outskirt from the capital. Tj can fish, cut woods and do errands in town, and sgr will take care of the kids and the home. She ride along with tj on his last merc mission, as the money from this plus their savings can get them comfy for a long time.
Tj knows well enough to keep his wife hidden, in the day sgr and their kids need to stay put in the carriage. Only come out when tj knock on the door. Most ppl dont know his wife is with him thanks to this. One day tho, this routine changed.
The mission was done so most of the mercs went into the city, or back home already. Sgr thinks the coast is clear so she ask tj if he could go out and lets the kid play outside. Sgr want to get some water to make warm bath for family tonight, so she go to the stream near their camp. Unfortunately her tragedy start here, she was washing her hands and washing some clothes when she caught the eyes of a white hair man.
The man quietly watched sgr when she got near the water, blue eyes sharp like a predator. When she was struggling to hold the bucket of water, he walked his horse closer to her and greet the beauty.

Back to the tjsg story, even when merc toji ignore her, sgr still try to give back. At first it was just gratitude, now its a crush. She fell in love with a sad lonely man whose hands soaked with blood. Yet he feels like warm spring in her heart, unlike the trembling cold she feels everytime a suitor comes. Her parents try to protect her, but everyone has a price. She saw some of them threatening her little neighbor twins miminana for lying for sgr before.
Anw, toji cant ignore sgr forever, and slowly, she made her way to his mind, and eventually his home. They got married secretly, with the kids as their witnesses. Sgr ran away from home, leaving a note to her parents. She's in a better place now (this will have a sad end)