boy what da hell? Why's you askings me this? Uhhh....I mean this ams a big question that depends on circumstances and whoms this kid hasing sex with. If ams being honest I thinks at this age if the kid is goings to be sexual in any way it shouldn't be thems having sex but rather self exploration (masturbation and figuring out thems body and whatnots). I don't really thinks anyone 9 or younger shoulds be having sex probably.