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친애하는, claire. · 5 answers · 4mo

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⋆ ౨ৎ hayyie, pals! i'm curious to hear your perspective on this. let's say you confess your feelings to someone or ask about their relationship status. what potential outcomes are you considering?

what kind of response would you hope for? feel free to share your thoughts and experiences, i would love to know the different possibilities and potential outcomes of such a conversation.
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can't answer this because i'm currently still moving on from my hts phase. but from my experience, i didn't really hope for something good to happen - since yk hts is not a good thing from the first place so, yeah. jangan hts guys, bikin gila.

im not someone who ever rlly initiates anything like this, so i cant rlly say based off experience

BUT if i were to ask someone abt their relationship status n things like that, id hope for a positive answer (like they say they like me back) 💀 but ik theres also the possibility of them not liking me back or they do like me but theyre not rlly ready for a relationship at this time

I can't even recall the last time I confessed (because my girl beat me to it). But if I were to, I'd hope she'd feel the same and we'd start dating.

jelas yg diharapin adalah diterima, tapi aku tetap sadar diri kalau penolakan itu ada. aku selalu bayangin beberapa kemungkinan yg bakal terjadi sebelum confess jadi ga ada respon yg di luar ekspektasi. kalau beneran sampai berani confess, artinya aku udah siap dengan konsekuensi yg ada termasuk penolakan.

Hi, Claire! Thank you for asking me. If I'm confessing my feelings or asking about someone's relationship status, I'm probably hoping for a positive response, like... mutual feelings or an open and honest conversation about where things stand? But I think it's good to be prepared for any outcome, like them reciprocating my feelings, not feeling the same way, or maybe they're not ready to talk about it yet. I hope it can help!

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