try to keep it from escalating too far, and focus on understanding the other side while ensuring they understand me. if they get angry, try to ignore all the personal attacks and focus on the actual content of their statements, and respond to that logically. ideally also calmly, but... sometimes frustration gets the better of me

The first thing i would do is try to talk it out instead of resulting to violence 、 as peace between us two is my first main goal 。 I shall not shout and talk with respect by using words like “i” instead of “you” to make the other person feel not at fault 。

I just like arguing。Debates are fun but watching people get angry over petty things brings me joy。I deal with petty & serious arguments by standing my ground。

if they're petty , I mostly go on and on for the fun of it.
serious arguments are where I panic... I don't do well with confrontation ;;

"your mom"