yeah i just don't get it. see i fully understand why some people aren't on board with rpf/rps, but I'm not sure what the point or aim of these discourses even is. you're not going to stop something that's existed pretty much as long as fandom itself has so what's the point of all this? other than to try make other people feel bad and yourself feel very self-righteous. to ME personally, it's simply: call out people who are taking it to places where the idols will see it, like in questions at fansigns or boards at concerts etc, but otherwise it's a matter of just mutually blocking so you don't see things you don't like because it is not going anywhere, and beyond that everyone in fandom spaces just minding their own business because there's clearly a big divide in opinions that's not gonna get resolved. this argument KEEPS popping back up in caratland and it's annoying and tiring atp