tell, if she/he is worse than you. said " rather than you like fat shamming to other people, see what you said earlier even towards you and it looks very bad from me get out of my eyes ew. "

I dunno how to say since it's gonna be different for us, Dumi. Personally I'm the type to ignore and masuk telinga kanan keluar telinga kiri. Think of it as something insignificant, a waste of time to even bother, perhaps you'll be glad and relieved those hurtful words won't affect you anymore.

pour them with hot water dumi!!!! or maybe it's hard for some people, just ignore them pretend no one say like that to you, (maybe) they'll stop...

well to be fair the only way to face them is to not face them anymore, the mindset of people with fatshamming tendency is one of the hardest change