yeah it’s the fact that rj tends to be excluded from those that makes me kinda uncomfy… and i understand he took a hiatus but the govt ship thing and ppl being a bit possessive and controlling over it intensified during like everyone was just more accepting and ig free range? about shipping before now they seem more closed off and invalidating anyone else. now you see discourse in the fandom almost every other day and ppl arguing about who’s real and who’s gay4pay it’s just exhaustinggg i need these ppl to be put back in their places :(