hi love! thank you for this, honestly 💗 i wasn’t expecting to receive a kind message seeing as i was preparing myself to read something else instead. i’ve been very tired and stressed from work, i just want to go on twitter and talk about gjhm when i’m off from work but lately whenever i go on the app, there’s always something negative happening surrounding my posts or the fandom and it frustrates me. i wish people in general, no matter which side of the fandom they’re from, just learned to be kind, listened to each other first instead of jumping into arguments, and learned how to ignore things they dislike. of course, there are things i wish i could’ve handled better too since not everything deserves a reaction, but i come here wishing to have a safe space but in the end, it just becomes another stressor as one thing leads to another.