Heart goes out to you in these times of Douman turmoil. I saw folks accusing CAENEUS of the same thing when he showed up in LB1 and was like "I'll steal your woman" at Kadoc. Caeneus, whose entire myth hinges on surviving assault. Fandom just gets rough as hell, let people enjoy their beasties quietly.
Great taste in ff14s as well, by the way. Have a good one!