hi anon! i don't know if this is just a random question or it has happened to you, tapi jika iya, i apologize for what you've been through ya non. i hope you can recover from the wounds and trauma they inflicted on you. buat jawabnya, aku juga kurang paham why people see cheating as normal. i still can't comprehend what goes on in their minds while doing it? maksudnya, if you can't remain faithful, it's best not to commit to someone, kan? tapi biasanya yang kayak begitu, antara gak punya rasa puas dan banyak mau, bisa juga insecure sama pasangannya. jadi kalau ada teman-teman yang pernah berada di posisi itu, jangan pernah merasa kecil atau put the blame on yourself ya, please know your worth, because you don't deserve that, and no one deserves to be cheated on.