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Kalandra Kafsa · 7 answers · 8mo

Hey, If you are in love with someone, but there is no progress, should you continue or do it?

Depends. What kind of love do you think you're currently experiencing? Altruistic? If it is, then as much as it sounds like a lie, I'd probably be content just seeing them from afar. So I won't put in any further effort than necessary.

I'll stop, no matter how much I love him. Prinsipku hubungan itu dua arah, equal– dijalani berdua tanpa berat sebelah. Kalau engga ada progress, baik dari salah satu pihak ataupun jalannya hubungan, lebih baik berhenti. Daripada drained sendiri. We deserve someone who appreciate our efforts and willing to do the same.

Berhenti. Karna buat apa membuang tenagamu ke orang yang bahkan nggak menghargai perjuangan kamu buat dia.

i'll stop. untuk apa melanjutkan dan keluarkan terlalu banyak effort tapi ga ada progress.

For me, there’s no point in continuing something that shows no progress despite big efforts that you constantly show. So, just walk away.

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