Anonymous Coward · 4d
Did you ever felt burdened by shipping some pairs? Like did it affect your life and how do you deal with it if it does. I was thinking today about my delusions about my fav pair and I do feel stomach discomfort when I imagine them with someone else if it's not the two of them. I feel like I want them to be together for real so I know I have a problem. I even talked with Chat GPT and I was ready to delete twt because I can see more of my ship here. I noticed that shipping hurts me, but it's also fun.
i mean… i understand i used to feel like this in another fandom too and it only make me feel hurt when they were going out with other people. rn i just enjoy the chemistry between the members. i’m not good at giving advices but try to look at the fun part of it more? just enjoy the moment and have fun with your ship. what i did was to take a break from that ship from the other fandom for a while and now even them i see as a fun part of my teenage years and as a silly little ship i go back to when things go hard. for me they were what kept me anchored to this world. everyone has chemistry so don’t let your friend dictate you who you should ship and who you don’t, and a ship doesn’t always have to be someone u see as a romance, it can be a bromance a friendship you really enjoy. you can just enjoy the friendship and the chemistry between some people. maybe taking a break for a while will do help you, just clear your mind for a bit 🫶🏻
