as I said, both of them have both sides. it's just that in bmjn ville people associate bg as the woman more frequently, and most people don't like to see yj as the woman too when he said he was OK with being called noona. I also agree with the fact that most queen couples ik have one of them who is soft and have feminine VIBES, but there are also some of them that don't have that kind of dynamic, it doesn't strictly have to be the traditional way were one have to be the girl and the other have to be the man.