and i forgot to add this, i know some of it clearly not in endearment way because they intentionally and purposely build the narrative like bomgi is a literal woman. at times it goes like yj is always spoiling bomgi, he’s such a doting husband, bomgi is so attentive and caring he’s so wife like sgshsgsg 😔 husband can be caring and attentive too yk… and the fact that it’s not in fiction but how some of us potray their irl dynamics 😣