ooh this is interesting… the calendar thing sounds so cute! i’m not sure what they are for me but i think it’s mostly based around food? baking for/sharing food with someone, making tea for them, even pretend-biting them (and saying “can i bite/eat you?” to my best friends)… didn’t write a mild cannibalism fic for nothing lol. love is stored in food (and perhaps the act of consuming your beloved whole!!)