i don’t think so! she’s always been so focused on other things that her usual “daydreaming”didn’t involve romance. there have always been other things that felt like more of a priority to her. catching feelings for aymeric was completely unplanned she was very “hahaha what the fuck” about it because she thought she would be immune to his charm— it turns out that he was more genuine than she expected.

she’s never really had expendable time to pursue things that felt more frivolous (as in, not bringing in any material gain) but aymeric encouraged and inspired her to do more things for her own sake, so i guess she’s making him take responsibility.