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Marilla Reinhardt. · 14 answers · 2mo

What is your love language and how you usually show it?

Acts of Service. I express love by doing practical things to make life easier for those I care about. Whether it's taking care of something before it's asked or just offering help when it's needed, I like to show love through actions rather than words. For me, it's about being reliable and thoughtful in ways that help lighten the load or make someone's day better.

mine is act of service, physical touch, and quality time. I’d express affection through physical closeness like cuddles, holding hands, or simply being present and enjoying each other’s company.

Frankly speaking, I have no idea. But this love language stuff is kind of puzzling me, like, why there's a need to classify those so-called love languages when we can just deliver everything at the same time?

I always think that we need a bit of all love languages and speak them languages deep inside our hearts but there’s a language that we speak better than others. For me, despite having bits of everything, I speak better in words of affirmation and quality time—this is honestly on par with physical touch.

And oh, romantically, I show my love differently when I am seriously in love. I always mirror the person I like, and try to speak their language. But yes, sometimes I act like I hate them while in fact I don’t know what I am doing and am in a constant confused state because my head is too full of them.

I can accept all love language and i have all except woa and giving/received a gift.

Qtime, and Giving Present. Sometimes just asking someone near me to go outside, and perhaps get them some delicious meals or some stuff they would need.

i think i have a bit of everything, if not a lot. but i consider words of affirmation and quality time as my primary love languages. expressing things through words when necessary or out of the blue, i do that often. i also want to spend more time together with the person i cherish, because i think i can learn more about them the more we talk and do things together. 🥺

Word of affirmation & Physical Touch.
Panggil “Sayang.” in every convo with him, i really do. 🥺

Words of affirmation, physical touch, and giving gifts. For example, if I’m comfortable enough with someone I’d talk with them (lovingly) while caressing their hand or holding their hands? But that’s just one of so many examples I could think of.

I may not be the most impartial judge of my own character, but those around me often remark on my gift for Words of Affirmation. While my actions may not always align perfectly, I sincerely hope that my words can still resonate with others. How do I express it? It flows effortlessly—finding beauty in all that they do.

My top 2 might be act of service and physical touch. Showing it through my action towards her.

As a person who speaks all the love languages, I’m a bit unique in that way. But if I had to simplify it, I’d say my primary love language is Acts of Service. I show love through acts of service by being helpful and doing things for the people I care about. Whether it’s cooking a meal, running errands, or helping with chores, I love being able to contribute to making life easier for others. It’s a way for me to show my love and care in a tangible way. That being said, I also speak words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, and receiving gifts.

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