Anonymous · 6mo
Are you a girl? If so, will you be able to help me in this situation, many times when I go to talk to a girl I end up having some things in mind, but then I simply can't think of anything to talk about and there is that silent atmosphere, where the attitude is expected , basically it's a conversation to break the ice, you know. So could you give me some advice? Sorry for asking you this kind of question, it's because I don't have anyone else close to me who can talk about it.
I am, yeah. But I have really bad soxial anxiety in general so I’m not the best when it comes to talking to new people. 😞 If I’m at a friend’s house/party I usually start by asking people how they know my friend and what they do. Otherwise I like talking about music and movies, or video games if people like those! But I definitely think regardless of who you’re talking to—girls, whoever—starting with a bit about themselves and then going into movies or tv shows is probably the easiest way to find things to talk about. :) You can do it!!
