mmm sometimes i do that but this time it's cause im writing an essay and would really like to hear other perspectives besides mine. like i do think you're wrong but for me personally it's not really enough to just write a majority opinion off as "wrong" like i want to hear why they think it's wrong so i can further interrogate my own ideas and decide if the values leading me to this conclusion are working correctly.

i also wanna talk to you guys about it because its come up so many times but it never feels generative or worthwhile. like yall just shout at us, cancel us, and move on. realistically we're on the same side of the aisle on this. if we start from the baseline that CSA and grooming are horrible, and acknowledge that maybe we have to refine that definition together, at least we can actually do something with this outrage. im not really mad but it seems like yall are always mad. im just wondering if there's something we can do w that lol otherwise it's just gonna be you guys getting mad at us all the time and stressing yourselves out cause in the moment it feels good to have someone to be mad at online. so like... whats up!