lil baby · 7mo
Idk about you but i find it strange when people see someone being powerful and feeling themselves and suddently he's the ultimate top dom and everyone should see him that way and accept the fact that he is one. I mean it's okay to enjoy him as you like of course, but this idea that a sub can't be powerful and confident when he wants and it's wrong to think he's one it's a little meh (idk if you know what i'm talking about but it happens a lot with hammie). I mean ok like what you like but don't act as if people are stupid or blind if they don't think the same as you
I totally agree w you! I also feel like ppl ignore that the one with the most control is actually the sub! I happen to enjoy dom mnho cuz he clearly likes to care for ppl (svng especially) and make sure they’re comfortable and happy. I see him being dom more of another way of giving someone (svng) pleasure and attention while letting them let go of the pressure of “being in control”. Even though they’re actually the one who’s in control of what happens. But yeah I hate when ppl assign position or dynamic labels simply based on stereotypical traits.
