hi ! we dont know each other n we arent even mutuals but i saw this on my tl and had to say smth ! i really admire you for admitting you’re not just yet ready for a relationship yet; recognizing the lingering feelings you have of missing your ex and how working on other things before getting in a relationship is what you need to do before opening your heart back up to relationships again. i hope i said this the way i want it to be received, but i truly admire you for it !! i feel the same way rn and i feel like its not talked about enough, so i think its so cool that you did. anyway, i hope we can be mutuals !!