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Oh that’s weird I saw a picture of the chat that was translated B.I I thought it meant bin and i … in need to practice my English lol
He said bin bought it for him when they were walking (at morning). that’s mean he is the one who took the photo of him?
https://x.com/happiness_0528/status/1835890550005694565?s=46
I saw this and remembered something… I always wonder why he can’t hold eyes gaze for too long with maet the moment Matt look at him he looks away. I noticed this scene bp
imagine not loving sungseok they're not like any other relationships i was so hooked about them the second i learned they had HISTORY like the first thing about them that is shown to us is their BOND. all these things came to my mind because wow it's crazy to remember that matthew is hanbin CRY BUTTON
that's exactly how i got hooked with sungseok bc they have history and they've been friends for a while and boyyyy do i love a good friends to lovers ship ㅠㅠㅠ and the more we find out about them and their relationship, the deeper my love for them gets. like even non rps-wise they're undeniably soulmates and they would always choose to keep each other in their lives 🥺🥺❣️❣️
i need new sungseok content, they never show them in the youtube videos 😭
We don't really know when mattbin met, there have been so many theories but the two never even said the year :( I'm pretty sure it has to be 2021 tho, just not when exactly that year. Matt went to college for a bit, so that must've been in 2020. Then he started at hybe but he never said how long he was there and when he changed to cube. In a video from May I think he told someone he's been in Korea for like 2½ years or smth and he mentioned that last Christmas was his 3rd one in Korea, so that means he has to have come there in 2021. In his boys planet profile it says that his training period was 1 year and 6 months and since they probably filled that out in like November 2022, it would mean he started training in Korea around May 2021. Again, we don't know how long he was at hybe. Bin's new agency got established in November 2021 (I think) and I've seen people say he already left cube in 2021, but that doesn't completely add up since Hyeonbin from nowadays joined cube 2022 (according to the internet) and they are close so bin must've left cube in 2022. In his bp profile his training period is 8 months, so that fits with being a trainee at studio glide since the beginning of 2022. So my guess is that they met around mid 2021. I've been trying to ask them in their lives when they met, but they never read that message, hopefully we will get more details more soon 🤞 sorry for this rant btw, just wanted to share my theories for once
oomfie do you know what year our sungseok met
https://x.com/mypluffycloud/status/1835281672574795907?t=w0fJhKolE9DWqafP30nwUQ&s=19 pov: you're matthew and you just woke up
it's so crazy that this fansite got suspended presumably for posting mattbin fansign photos, no surprise no one posts them when they only get hate for it 🙄
after my account getting suspended and a bunch of other sungseokers getting reported for no valid reason, i just don't think it's a coincidence anymore... and what violation would the fansite even be reported under?? i don't want to point fingers but it's getting hard not to, yknow... it's upsetting because we just want to enjoy this ship/duo like everyone else does with their own ships
have you seen some fans claimg that matt & bin are being favored bc sorn said clc's former management team is now zb1's? That's just so ridiculous, like a) clc wasn't managed well so this is kinda an indicator that they're all not treated that well and b) just bc they were at cube doesn't mean that they know each other or that the management likes them more bc of that. The claims are mainly coming from hao's fandom rn and he's really not the one being mistreated, I could get it if ricky or woong stans would make that claim but bin & hao are the ones who get the most opportunities bc they're the most popular. Fans need to realize that it's not only the company deciding things but it's also the brands asking for specific people. I also get upset when I see some members get less opportunities than others but this is how it works and you're only hurting your fav and their group when you put the other members down. zb1 really has the most intense form of solo stans I've seen in my years of being a kpop fan and it's just holding them down
yeah i heard about it (but i didn't really see because i rarely look at stuff outside of my following... for my peace of mind)... i think these are claims that people want to use to justify the actual issue that should be addressed separately (e.g. other members not getting the same opportunities) shows and brands do invite specific members and that doesn't only apply to zb1 but to other groups as well. cube's former management team being in wakeone doesn't mean that it's the reason why mattbin were invited to a show... if they were really favored by cube's former management, then they should have debuted together in cube. and if mattbin were favored now, we would already have mix&max and they would be together on every single content but that's not really the case.
i don't think it matters which sf is making these claims, we can demand for fair treatment without shitting on other members... one member getting opportunities does not make them less deserving than the others. i know a lot of people are feeling frustrated but this anger should be directed to wk1 and wk1 only, not the members.
i'm gonna be really honest with you this is my first time stanning a group that came from a survival show so i'm really not used to this kind of behavior from solo stans. the groups i've stanned over the years did have akgaes, but i don't think it ever got this bad...
Please, don't mind me ranting, you don't even need to reply, I just needed to SPEAK >.<
Not going to mention any maet ship in this cuz baby boy has already gone through a lot but, Lol, I feel like I have to defend myself as someone who has two NOTPs and who is a monogamist regarding one member. (not from you because yeah, why tf would anyone search for their Notp, ew, I want that shit away from me), but from that anon because… most shippers have a Notp even if they don't call it that, and the large majority are like… normal about it.
I know that comment wasn't directed at ppl like me who are not gonna go on a witch hunt of whoever ships my NOTPs, but I don't think the deal breaker is having a NOTP or being a monogamist or not. I think is that a lot of people, shipper or not, 1- have no idea how to fandom and 2- cling to a moral high ground to try and justify any negative feelings they have so they can avoid some weird new kind of guilt from disliking something just because you dislike something. Also 3- which is people forget that yes you can curate your experience and just block ppl (in my case that's not feasible but I mute the ship names), but I don't think I wanna dive into that.
I still remember getting death threats over a certain Haikyuu ship. People said it was because one was a third year in high-school and the other was a first year in high-school. The real reason was because they, who were halves of two of the top 5 or 6 most popular ships in the fandom at the time, had a growing fanbase who didn't pretend to care about the other ships like other rarepairs did, we only ever posted about our OTP and God, did people hate that.
I've got my NOTPs, both in rps and fiction ships, including two in jbw — neither including members of my otp —, but I'd never talk about it in public in any way people can find. I've got them in on my rps chart marked as NOTP so people can stay away if they want (and they may know why I mute/block/unfollow them), but whenever I want to vent is always vague, it's always "them" instead of name or I censor the name (not my Notp but this one is so work relationship coded for me, I still read cuz fiction is fun, but everytime I see tinhatting I'm like "do they know each other?")
Maybe that's because I've got Tumblr manners — You don't tag the media, you don't tag the memebrs/characters, you don't tag your Notp as (e.g.) neulbin, you tag it as antineulbin, so people can block the tag (and you) and your hate won't show up when people search the ship, but the people who share the same opinion can find you.
It's just… there are lines, yk? So that's my point one, fandom manners. This rps community lacks fandom manners. No one is saying you can't have NOTPs, just be fucking sensible about it.
On the second point is what bothers me the most: People try to justify their hate.
OK, you can try and explain, I mean, I hate that one canon ship because those characters were changed not by the narrative but by the author, with no reason, so yeah, fuck that. But I ain't gonna get on my moral horse, ride to moral hill and give my little moral proclamation in my shining moral armor.
You don't even BELIEVE what you're saying, you just want to have some backing for your opinion. Those people talk the same way the anti-rps do. They reduce morals, they use ad absurdum fallacies with the craziest equivalency, they clearly give no fucks to what they claim to be defending because they are OK with a similar situation as long as is not the one they hate.
They can't own up to the fact that they just DISLIKE stuff with no superior reason. Because that's what bad people do. They hate for no reason. And they'd rather die than be a bad person. Except that's not a "bad person" exclusive! That's human! Sometimes you see a new coworker and you just absolutely don't vibe with them. You still gotta be polite, you owe them respect. And yeah, some stuff you can't just block or mute because it's everywhere and maybe your work friend also hate them so you two can talk about how the way they fill their coffee with sugar is soooo obnoxious, but you ain't doing all that anywhere this coworker or ANYONE ELSE, for that matter, can hear. That's the different between being just human and being a bad person.
I guess that's why people get so mad with dead dove do not eat, because they think enjoying fiction like that means you enjoy it in reality as well.
Whew, had to get it all out. Sorry for the pointless rambling.
SORRY I HAD TO REPLY because I agree with literally EVERYTHING you said. (dw i won't post on twt)
personally i don't mind monogamists as long as they.. yknow, just stay in their lane and not shit on other ships bc hey, we're different people, we can't like the same things, and sending me hate just because you don't ship my ship won't make me run over to your side lol
FANDOM MANNERS. yes yes yes!!! that's what people are lacking. I'm led to believe that a huuuuuge number of these people are very young and new fans, hence impressionable and would tend to behave how their mutuals behave. like you, tumblr also raised me. that's why i'm also aware that you should not tag what you don't want to be seen by people who do not have you in their radar.
"No one is saying you can't have NOTPs, just be fucking sensible about it." ㅡ YES!! you CANNOT expect everyone to ship everyone, not everyone multiships, I myself have NOTPs (i have one of them indicated in my ship chart) so people would know that they will not find me talking about this ship in an rps context. it's okay to have notps just... for fucking sake, at least censor the ship name if you want to talk about it so bad so we don't find it in the searches.
"OK, you can try and explain, I mean, I hate that one canon ship because those characters were changed not by the narrative but by the author, with no reason, so yeah, fuck that. But I ain't gonna get on my moral horse, ride to moral hill and give my little moral proclamation in my shining moral armor." ㅡ i had a little giggle this was so funny. but you're absolutely right about people having that need to be in a moral high ground when they say they dislike something. not everything needs a very deep reason, if i don't ship your ship it's ONLY because they're not my cup of tea. no other explanation needed because there's no other reason. but that doesn't mean that I should attack everyone who ARE into it. there's no actual merit in fighting people who like the things you hate.
"I guess that's why people get so mad with dead dove do not eat, because they think enjoying fiction like that means you enjoy it in reality as well." ㅡ omg this is a recurring discourse in anime twt. people shit on people for being "proshippers" and proshipping has lost its meaning because a lot of people seem to think that if you're a proshipper it means that consuming dark themes/dead dove means that you also like it irl, when proshipping means that you allow and respect all ships, tropes, and themes.
while reading your rs I keep saying to myself, 'omg is this person ME' because everything you said is exactly what I think. it all boils down to fandom manners. it's such a broad topic and it shouldn't only cover rps but also non-rps spaces bc man... the shit people say to/about other people, and even about the artists themselves in this fandom. there's a clear lack of respect and self awareness.
thank you for ranting to me!! and it's not pointless rambling because you made A LOT of great points! also, lastly.... is that haikyuu ship oikage? (they're the only 3rd yr-1st yr popular pair I could think of rn) lol
respectfully speaking jbw rpsers who have like strict notps or are monogamists should learn how to mind their own business. Harassing other shippers for no reason is getting OLD.
hi dein <333 check your dm when you have free time thx
No but haobinners are SOOOOO annoying like damn enjoy your own food??? if you don't like sungseok, mute block and move on! doing things like this only serves to show how jobless and miserable they are. Truly. I have nothing nice to say about haobinners that act like this. I know there are good haobinners, but why is it that its always the worst one's harassing us over and over when we've done NOTHING to harm them???
a lot of them do stay in their lanes but a whole lot of them also go to great lengths just to send hate... we might not have the same ships but we share the same rps spaces so i wish people would be more mindful and think twice before attacking other shippers, it's already bad that there have been witch hunts for rpsers in general, let's not make this an unsafe space for other shippers too... at the end of the day our goal is just to enjoy and daydream about our ships :)
(i'm not only talking abt bnb shippers here..... i've been seeing this behavior from and towards other ships as well)
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