pronouns don’t equal gender so i’m fine with it idrc. i’ve come to understand people can have complicated relationships with gender especially in the case of a lesbian where you feel alienated from patriarchal ideas of womanhood. about the non-men thing i’m not so sure lol i’m still mostly compelled to wanting to associate lesbianism to women loving women. i get that it’s about making feminine-leaning nb people feel included but idk i feel it’s a long and very layered conversation