I've always been the kind of person who refuses to ask for help. I'd try to do everything on my own, to my fullest extent. But, there was one time, one of my co-worker from my previous job noticed how overwhelmed I was. She told me she would help, without me asking. And when I was about to refuse, she told me "Kalo lo merasa orang-orang baik sama lo, berarti lo juga baik sama orang lain. Jadi terima aja sih!" I will never forget that! I feel more at ease now, receiving help from others, thanks to her!