hello! good question! i began feeling like he/him wasn’t me. it wasn’t who i was, it didn’t fit me. i still have people who use that pronoun for me, but really people just use a mixture of he/she/they on me nowadays. however, i prefer they/them because i don’t like being limited to a gender and i feel i can truly define who i am using these pronouns! i’m not sure if ANY of this makes sense or if i even answered your question!