Knothead · 8mo
i'm an omega!bin hater because seeing him as an omega is seeing only one side of him (caring and nurturing) and ignoring all of his other traits.... ppl tend to see neul as a person much more complex than bin, with characteristics that are not always perfectly tied to the other (fierce and independent but also needy and clingy for instance). everyone knows and accepts he's complex and NOT a monolith. for some reason, people don't (or refuse to) see bin under the same light
in bin's case, ppl who see him as an omega see him as always good and sweet, submissive and nothing else. but he's much more than JUST that
saying he's simply sweet and nurturing is to deny some of his other core characteristics that lie just beneath the surface. bin is honestly one of the bravest and most tenacious people i've ever seen. he's not afraid of being who he is, he's outspoken, thoughtful and considerate. he’s possessive, protective, dependable and he seems to be comfortable leading - all alpha characteristics that omega!bin supporters turn a blind eye to because he has "a soft face" or is a "flower boy"
seeing his face, he has strong omega vibes, but how is judging him by his face any different from judging him for his body or strength? no difference at all. so in the end ppl who see him as an omega are honestly just as shallow as some of the ppl you guys are trying to say only see him for a dick 🤷🏽♀️ it just icks me that some people refuse to see how deeply complex and multi-faceted he is
i want to preface this by saying that i definitely agree that bin is complex... i mean who isn't? everyone is ! and i definitely agree with your justifications for why you think he's an alpha but towards the end of your message i can't help but think that this is turning into something that isn't... about omegaverse? i don't know if i'm just misinterpreting your tone sorry but like this alpha/beta/omega thing is supposed to be silly lighthearted fun and i just don't think we should be equating someone's a/b/o designation for bin as their perception of SUNG HANBIN THE IDOL. like someone can say they think bin is an omega just because he bared his neck in one video or because they think he's pretty but still know that hanbin is a multi-faceted and complex person idk! and i get your point to an extent -- i won't deny that some people definitely undervalue hanbin but i just don't think we should immediately say that when it comes to omegabinners... like omegaverse will never be that serious
