This is a tough one because my most ideal embarrassing situations are Literally Impossible to play out IRL, given that I'm a very large adult man, and what I want to be is small and cute and helpless.

I think something I'd really like to do, that is achievable either IRL or in VR, is be placed into the child role and spoken to (and about) as though I'm a toddler by other adults present who are otherwise socializing with each other while I'm confined to either a playpen or toddler's play-yard. It's a very common thing for parents to keep their kid contained and in an observable space while they have adult conversations and only occasionally acknowledge that the kid is there, but it's a scenario that, in my experience, is almost never acted out or depicted in ab/dl media.

(note though that this fantasy falls apart for me the MOMENT there is a second 'child' added to the mix. the idea that I'm equal in status to anyone else present completely deflates any interest I have in a scene like this. Even in online RP, I find other babs who try to initiate some kind of 'making friends on the playground' scene with me to be really tiresome.)

There's not any one species that is my kryptonite that I'm attracted to no matter what, if that's what you're asking, but there are a few species that I tend to find more attractive than others, especially when they carry themselves with the self-confidence and assertiveness that makes someone a proper authority figure.

For Adult Supervision, I tend to be drawn to lions and tigers, and sometimes other big cats, bears, dragons, wolves, german shepherds, malamutes, and other large breed dogs, and the sturdier mustelids like badgers and wolverines.

There's other animals that CAN work for me if they're big enough and can smirk properly. I tend to be less interested in most hooved animals, especially farm animals. Can't get over the barnyard smell.

Okay so. This gets a little explicit in its description of kink so some discretion is advised before you expand the post.

Took me a little bit to try to think about what the MOST embarrassing thing I've been asked to do was and this morning I remembered it - there was a gentleman who lived fairly locally to me that wanted to meet up for dinner and some bullying, so he picked a restaurant close to him and required that I wear a diaper under my clothing for the night. I had, prior to this point, never worn outside of my home before.

Problem was the only diapers I had at the time were a brand called ConfiDry 24/7's, which, while very comfortable and a delight to wear, are LOUD. I don't know that anyone else in the restaurant noticed as we were seated but it certainly felt like my underclothing was broadcasting itself to everyone as I walked by. My date for the night also said, offhandedly, 'oh, yeah, those are super loud, everyone can tell', which I'm certain was just him winding me up but it didn't help. I felt like I was going to burst into flames right there.

Afterward we went back to his apartment to fool around a little bit and he, um. He used my diaper like I was a porta-pebble. Just writing about it makes me want to hide.