ok this is weird but like even my parents never expected me to date srsly bc of now i am???? and i got so used to everyone saying that to me but being w my bf is so natural and makes me so happy so im like. oh it wasnt that im incapable of this!!!!!

growing up. like as a child... of 4 or 5 years i'd always be like yeah!! ill get married to a girl or a boy idc if i like their personality!! which IS normal but my parents never said anything despite being insanely heteronomative and homophobic??

tbh lots of weird things since my family is scottish but i live in england so some phrases and names for things are different and i go oh

hm... stuff with how my parents treat me usually! i can't think of something specific but their way of parenting in general with how strict they are shouldn't be the norm but it's the daily for me ;___;